The 49ers

Bottom line is that as an average woman, our best option was to get some discernment and learn to spot a H.I.T when we were in our 20s (a “H.E.N.R.Y” in training) and grow in the marriage until you have a high value man as a husband. I didn’t do it that way because my immigrant parents valued education and never emphasized finding a good match along the way — so I ended up briefly married and divorced from a malignant narcissist (i.e. he officially meets the diagnostic criteria). So best believe, I will be training my two little daughters to develop better radar than I had and to be feminine, beautiful, and inspirational. #fbi

Love,

Jude

l.i.v.e well🧬 Be. Bālãnçï™ 💎

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Hunting & Gathering

Took me 10 years to figure out my hunter-gatherer brain. Thank goodness I didn’t quite have 50 jobs but I did got close, my life has been failing forwards, upwards,

Love,

Jude

#inattentiveadhd

#combinedADHD

#smartgirlshaveADHDtoo

#ADHDismysuperpower

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Not Waiting to Exhale

I am a single divorced mama, and found The Lord in my waiting season. God delivered Hagar and also made unto her a great nation, Al Basir is El Roi. The God who sees, sees us, and covers the mothers without covering.

In the meantime and in between time spend my (very limited) free time, kickboxing, getting reflexology foot massages, beach hikes, therapeutic writing, singing in the shower to dope music and dancing to the beat of my own drum. #peace

l.i.v.e well🧬 Be. Bālãnçï™ 💎

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Rush hour

Mind blown!!!!!

I was just saying to my therapist that I hate being rushed. Like it makes my brain lock up like putting bubblegum in your bike gears. I will NOT be pressured. It makes me more clumsy, more prone to mistakes, more apt to do something impulsive that I regret. Probably most enlightening is for me is coming to the revelation that being around unhealthy people creates added chaos that makes your life feel frenetic. Definitely not a recipe for living well.

Who knew?

So, if you don’t mind, I’m going to just sit here and unapologetically watch my nails dry. 💅🏽

Thank you Anna Runkle, you really are like a fairy godmother for PTSD.

Love,

Jude

Semper Impavida, Ex Aequo Et Bono. Pax, Lux Et Veritas en Deus Ex Machina 🕊📖 🖊

l.i.v.e well🧬 Be. Bālãnçï™ 💎

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You are not alone: Neurodiverse ones

Mashallah, we are not alone. The Quran has finally helped organize my mind. I have always felt refuge in the book and the pen…on my 44th birthday Allah gave me the answer and I was finally diagnosed as bipolar 1 exactly 5 months ago and just took my shahada on the 15th of Shabaan. #bipolarlife

l.i.v.e well🧬 Be. Bālãnçï™ 💎

Semper Impavida, Ex Aequo Et Bono. Pax, Lux Et Veritas en Deus Ex Machina 🕊📖 🖊

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Dr. Jude Ä Mason

Dr. Jude Ä Mason

Jude IZ ā luminary • innovator • visionary • emissary • metaphysician • metacognician • just another manic mommy chasing ŸY🧬 somewhere over Bālãnçï ™💎